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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was spanked for silly things by my mom and my grandmother (she partly raised me). I grew up hating both of them. With my kids I usually start with lectures, then time outs, then take away something, and if all fails then I do a one spanking. I don't go from zero to spanking. I think at home our kids know by now how the "process" goes so they don't push my buttons all the way.... It's a good way for me too to not lose it all at once. But, yes, it takes a lot of patience. On occasions if they have a horrible tantrum they get a cold shower to cool things down too. [/quote] You're abusive. [/quote] No they are not.[/quote] The bizarre punishment of forcing a kid into a cold shower most definitely is abusive. See also: being made to kneel for hours, "washing" a mouth with soap, putting cayenne pepper on a child's tongue, etc. [/quote]
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