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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I met my much younger fwb through a hobby related group. I genuinely like him as a person but the age/life stage difference means a relationship is completely off the table. Fortunately neither of us are really inclined towards jealousy and we’re able to have a non-exclusive but mutually satisfying fwb relationship[/quote]

I'm at the point I'd just like a FWB and it doesn't have to be a relationship - so I wouldn't be jealous of his seeing other people.

My only concern is STDs.  Full stop.  Do you discuss this?  Or always use protection?[/quote]

Poster w/ the FWB and FB—we always use protection. There was one guy I was in more of a situation ship w/ and we stopped because we weren’t sleeping with anyone else during pandemic lockdown [/quote]

So no oral?  Or do you use protection for oral too?  Because both of those options sound really unsatisfying.[/quote]

I don’t usually use protection for oral, but have sometimes. Yet, no STDs! We discuss testing/history.[/quote]

"we always use protection."  ok, so that was a lie.[/quote]

So, what is your point? Doesn't change anything..... Still never so much as a cold sore. But carry on. [/quote]

Many infections can be silent for a very long time.

Before I was married, I always asked:  When was the last time you were tested, what were you tested for, and what were the results.  No one had a problem swapping images of results.

If they’d never been tested or it’d been over half a year, oral sex was out unless they were ok with a condom.  If they had negative results and tested within six months I’d give oral without a condom, but finishing had to be by hand.  No ejaculation in the mouth does reduce the chances of some infections for the giver.

Condoms always for PIV.

I got tested annually, which meant both a blood test and vaginal swab, and then I’d test in between for those that can be tested by blood only.

This is a good site to have as a resource. https://smartsexresource.com/about-stis/know-your-chances-0

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