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[quote=Anonymous]	No, op, a single mom and her toddler didn’t “just move in with you”, you had the time, money, and desire to rent an apartment for the three of you to live comfortably in, probably a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom apartment which aren’t cheap. You had to seek out, apply and have enough money on hand to cover first and last month’s rent.  Did you put this woman on the lease when you signed it? Probably not. How did you get out of your current lease, did you pay the lease-break fee or just skip out? I ask because I guarantee you that this woman didn’t contact you when your lease was up and you were just happening to be looking for a 2 bed 2 bath apartment.

As for the naked pics, you may not have asked for them, but you accepted them. You didn’t tell her to stop sending them, and you liked the pics so much you made it easy and comfortable for her and her kid to live with you.

Know that if she had her old boyfriend arrested, she’ll have you arrested too and since you are an unrelated male, she may not hesitate to have you arrested for abusing or molesting her kid.  I’d at least be thinking of that possibility, especially if you are alone with the child and the child does or says something that makes her uncomfortable.   It doesn’t mean you did anything, it just means she knows how to have men arrested, there’s no reason she wouldn’t have you arrested if you displeased her, and if she’s smart, and I think she is, she’ll pin a molestation accusation on you, or maybe a rape allegation, take your pick. Either way, she can have you excluded from your legal rental at least for a little while.  All that should scare the hell out of you even if you don’t think she’ll find another guy she can send nudes to while she’s in a relationship with you, a relationship you seem to still want for whatever reason.

Don’t think for a minute the baby daddy doesn’t know where she is, or that he won’t find out, and that he doesn’t have legal rights to his child. He does.. until he signs away his rights or until the courts get involved, meaning you can’t legally keep him away from his kid no matter how much your friend fusses, cries and tells you what a bad man he is.. which he may be.

If this woman wanted a family with you, she’d marry you Monday as soon as the courthouse is open.  She wouldn’t send you nudes then turn off the sex possibility the week she moved in.. which she didn’t as I explained above.  Life may have had its way with her more then it should have, but life also provides love and acceptance, something you are offering her, and which she is spurning.  Be aware of that. You are offering her the life she claims she wants only to have her say “no”.  She knows how to keep you on the hook, op.

Be aware she had more support with her kid then you realize, the kid wasn’t in the pictures when she posed naked for you, was he?  He has some spoiled habits that didn’t come from her.. so where did they come from? Think about what you’re writing, op.

Do what you want, just don’t expect the toad to turn into a princess.  Don’t expect the rent money either, her job will “fall through”, daycare will “not work out” something will go wrong.

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