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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can support her by finding her a very good psychiatrist. She is 54 and if she should be successful she would be 74 when child is 20. She is nuts and I hope no one will help in accomplishing something so absymally stupic and selfish. [/quote] I don't really get this part. I understand that it is near-impossible and very hard to be a parent of a baby at 54-55. But I don't get what is so terrible about being a parent of a 20 year old when 74 as opposed to 64 or 54? The gap between normal and delayed parenting is by far the biggest at conception and then, when the baby is little. The older the child, the less difference does it make how old were his parents when he was conceived. Also, it's ludicrous to say that this is selfish. It is immature, I get it, but not selfish. I bet you that, if she were to (somehow) give birth to a child, that child would prefer to have been born rather than not being born.[/quote]
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