Reply to Feeling sad about losing a mom friendship over bullying

Forum Index » General Parenting Discussion

Reply to "Feeling sad about losing a mom friendship over bullying"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why didn't you just take a break and keep the kids separate for awhile before blowing it all up? They are 6 and by nature and poor social skills. Kids don't get along one month and are best friends the next at this age.[/quote]

This is not sound advice. Six is plenty old enough to know. Do not put your child with this other child to get re-victimized. [/quote]

"Re-vitimized"? Good Lord, do you know any 6 year olds?[/quote]

You must be a mom of a bully. [/quote]

+1[/quote]

You must be moms of toddlers. Do you know how many times my kids have come home crying about so-and-so excluding them and not playing with them and then the next week they forget all about it and are best friends? Happens all the time. Or my kids didn't get along with some kids who were too physical, or bossy, and then a few months later all is forgotten and everyone is friends. You people need to chill and quit labelling young children as monsters when they are all still just figuring things out.  Maybe OP and the kid aren't meant to be friends, or maybe they will work it out. It's kindergarten, after the summer it can all change.[/quote]

I think it’s weird the OP seems to think the very over the top sounding physical issues are equivalent to the pretty typical mean girl behavior of exclusion which does happen quite a lot. It’s not great but it’s definitely not on the same level as punching and leaving bruises. Regardless it’s ok to be sad but is this really a big change? Did the girls play together fine before this? It sounds like a big escalation and I guess it would make me curious and slightly worried about the other girl. And I say that as a parent of  a DD who has had some behavioral issues we work with multiple professionals on. [/quote]

The girl was always kind of mean but the physical stuff happened out of the blue last week. It makes me wonder how long this has been going on.  Otherwise the usual girl stuff was par of course but I found nothing too alarming. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics