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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"I also wish he had said to me "being affectionate and having sex is a big part of who I am. I am very attracted to you and my feelings are extremely hurt that you continually reject me. I feel like you don't want me. When I come up and kiss you, I am showing you that I love and want you and when you push me away, it feels like a complete rejection." what he said to me was basically "I need to f...men like sex...there must be something wrong with you if you're not interested in doing it. I'm pissed that you're not interested in sex."

He did say that, but in guy speak. You just didn't understand it."

Well fine, but I'm a woman. We clearly weren't hearing each other which was why I suggested counseling. We needed a translator. [/quote]

right, but do you ever tell him exactly how you are feeling? or do you beat around the bush and expect him to read in between the lines? If you want you needs met you need to talk to him like he talks to you in order for him to *hear* you. Men are not toddlers or mind readers, they just act like it...but you really need to be direct and as the cliche states: say what you mean and mean what you say.[/quote]

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