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I'm surprised that people don't realize how important conflict resolution skills will be to a marriage. To me, that even seems more important than matching libido. You can't know in the future whether your libido will change but not being able to resolve any fights will always manifest. I suppose that's why people who marry over 30 have the lowest rates of divorce. They already know this. I suppose most of you married young? 
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Yes, but what they're saying is, conflict resolution is easy when you're first married and your arguments are relatively simple. Most people can work those out and then you think, "Wow, we're good at resolving our conflicts." What gets hard is being good at resolving them after kids, stressful jobs, money problems, family issues, years of history building up and tons of responsibility. Resolving conflicts that arise from THOSE things is a whoooole different animal than the typical "You're messy and I like it neat!" arguments that crop up in the early days. [/quote]

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