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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I also want to say that I suggested we try marriage counseling many many times. I said "I am unhappy and you are unhappy and our current ways of communicating that u happiness are not working. Let's try to go to a counseling session at least once or twice to see if we can improve our situations." he flat-out refused. He later told me that he saw counseling as admitting something was wrong that you can't handle yourself, that you have failed and that you are weak. Incidentally, he now loves it (we still go once a month). [/quote]

It sounds like you did what you could and I think not many people could have done better.

My only question is this: did you know when you married your husband that he would likely be resistant to counseling and was passive aggressive? Did this manifest in other areas? Seems like sex is just a symptom of poor relationships, despite what both people say. I bet many of the people on this thread who have little libido, if they are honest are somehow resenting their partners. [/quote]

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