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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe I'll ask this question from the other POV.  If your FDIL/DIL and your son lived locally and everytime your FDIL/DIL came over with your son would that bother you?  I'm not trying to be snarky I promise.  I just now am thinking based on some of these replies saying my fiance should ask before I come over or that FMIL is bothered that I come over that maybe we were wrong?  Like I said I guess after a certain length of time and living together after a while it was an implied invite with both of our families.

Yes my fiance sees his mother along (albeit not very often but he does) and I see my parents alone sometimes.  Again maybe it's cultural or regional but in our circle it's more common to see family members as a couple than not to.  From some of these responses I gather that it's more appropriate for my fiance to ask to bring me each and every time he sees his mother and same with me and my family.  Although I think that our family would think we are nuts like you guys are engaged and live together of course your partner is more than welcome.[/quote]

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