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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, OP, seems you haven’t been clear on which group you would like to avoid being part of or perceived to be part of by some other group (?). Can you clarify?

As a parent who has been SAH/WFH/WOH, my advice is to stop assuming all SAHs/WFHs/WOHs are all the same and stop caring what others think of you just because you are one of the above.[/quote]

OP here.  Let me be clearer:  I do not want anyone to think I am a nanny-hating or daycare-hating SAHM because I SAH.  I also do not want to get lectured by WOHMs about not thinking of my future or depending on my husband.

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This right here is the problem. You have illustrated both of the “crazy” ends of the dcum mommy wars debate. But you don’t seem to think the WOHM is crazy. You need to realize they’re both crazy. [/quote]

OP is a SAHM!  Why would she be worried about being lumped in with the crazy WOHMs?

I think it’s very telling that OP had to mention her trust fund and college degree to avoid the judgement and lectures from the WOHMs. [/quote]

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