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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My BF is retired at age 62. He wants me to move to NC to live with him. He has a pension and a great retiree lifestyle. I am 52 and in the prime of my career. I need to save as much money as I can to ensure a comfortable retirement. [b]I don’t have kids— I am going to be alone in my very old age, assuming I’m lucky to live that long[/b]. BF wants me to get a less stressful job so we can spend more time together. He told me if I keep my current job, things won’t work out between us. I like my job and it would be hard for me to find another one that is both less stressful and allows me to save what I’m saving currently. I’ve spent years building my career, but my BF means a great deal to me. I don’t want to lose him, but I also feel put off by his request here, like he’s trying to make me fit into his life with no regard for my needs. I’m not sure what to do.[/quote]

I'm with the PPs who tell you to drop this guy. But I also think you're being very negative about being childfree in old age. Focus on your health and strength and that will help you a lot as you get older. There are 100-year-old powerlifters out there. Not saying that you need to be one. If you're not careful, your negativity will age you too. [/quote]

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