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Parenting -- Special Concerns
Reply to "Adoptive parents that treat their biological child and adopted child differently"
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[quote=Anonymous]Adoptees, please do not blame your adoptive parents for your adoption. They did not cause you to be adopted. They did, however, open their hearts and their homes to you. It is too easy to blame all of life's problems on something that neither you nor they had control over. They are not perfect, but neither would your biological parents have been perfect. Adoption is one chapter in your life story. Do not make it your life story. Do not assume every "slight" is because you are adopted. Perhaps the most difficult question to ask yourself is what part your attitude about your adoption impacts the family dynamics. In the end, all of the anger and resentment about being adopted will only hurt you.[/quote]
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