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Reply to "If you lost weight for your spouse, did it help your marriage?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The alternative, OP, was he didn't tell you, your sex life worsened, and he found excitement elsewhere. We can yell and fuss about how crappy that is, but I'm being realistic. Good for you for pushing yourself to be a good partner to him, and hopefully he returns the favor.[/quote] OP here. This is kind of his thought as well. He says that he would never physically cheat, but that he finds himself looking at other women, and he doesn’t think he would do that if I lost weight. Frankly, I think that sounds like BS. He was looking at other women when we were first dating, and I was very attractive. Other married men look at me all of the time. It’s normal, and it isn’t going away, and it isn’t my fault. [/quote] That’s not ok. He has to take responsibility for his own actions. The truth is you guys are both going to gold and less attractive at some point. If this is how he handles it I’d be worried. [/quote]
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