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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man I really wonder how some of y’all stay married. Most of these cosleepers probably never have sex, which is precisely why cosleeping is off the table for both my DH and I. OP, he’s not a bad husband for wanting to share a bed and sleep with his wife, depression or not. Hire a sleep consultant. This isn’t hard. 
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It’s pretty easy to have sex while cosleeping. It’s not that different from having them in a crib or other room except you have to be quieter I guess. With young babies, you can just get them asleep on another part of the bed. With older babies or toddlers, you can get them to sleep then go have sex in another room. I mean, how do you think people had sex for most of human history before separate bedrooms became common?

There’s always time for sex no matter where your child sleeps or how bad a sleeper they are. Even if they wake up every hour, that is still plenty of time to have sex. I know because I’ve been there.[/quote]

Sounds so much easier to simply have your kids sleep in their own rooms.  People coslept for years because they had limited space and no other options. [/quote]

Actually no. In my experience, it’s way simpler to cosleep with an infant that go through the whole thing of soothing then, putting them down, hoping they stay asleep, analyzing why they’re not sleeping, etc etc. [/quote]

Cool. Well sounds like it’s not going well for OP.  [/quote]

Why? She only cosleeps occasionally and it’s when her baby Sleeps best. We’re telling her to just do it all the time. It’s keeping her baby in a separate room that’s not working for her.[/quote]

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