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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It doesn't have to be an affair. He could just be unhappy (reality, life, work, this is it??) and he knows he can't drink like that around you. So he sneaks drinks beyond what he is "allowed" (as a husband, father, upstanding person, whatever he is having to be) and he can't handle it. Basically, trying to get away from "life". [/quote] OP, the takeaway from the above should NOT be that you somehow caused his alcohol abuse. I would have felt that way when I was realizing about my DH’s addiction. That’s not how it works. [/quote] They are escaping themselves. My spouse was clear the drinking/cheating had nothing to do with unhappiness with me or the marriage. It was all internal issues and self-dissatisfaction, part of the reason great means were taken to conceal all of it.[/quote]
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