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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, I sometimes wonder if our society ever allows someone to just be sad and upset. What's happening in Ukraine is awful. Isn't it OK and perfectly understandable for your wife to be a mess? Can't you just let her be?[/quote] NP here - of course, but the kids still have to eat and the clothes still need to be washed. Not saying this all falls to the wife but it shouldn’t all fall to OP either. Maybe for a week or two okay, but not indefinitely.[/quote] If only they had two parents — oh, wait! They do! If only they could hire some temporary help if they needed it — oh, wait! They can![/quote] Disagree. Her family comes first, even before her country. She sounds like a petulant child.[/quote] Aaaand the Russian trolls have arrived. maybe op’s wife was making a difference after all…[/quote] Not a troll. My mom had a fast aggressive cancer and died relatively quickly at a fairly young age (60.) It was such a terrible and sad and upsetting time for my family. [b]My husband was amazing and did so many things to support me.[/b] AND I still managed to care for my kids, feed them, get some laundry done, etc. This idea that being terribly upset about something precludes you from doing anything else is hogwash. [/quote] Obviously, an amazing man not willing to take care of his own children or do laundry. What did he do? Cheer you from the sofa while watching football and drinking beer? [/quote]
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