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[quote=Anonymous]If you really want your brother back, you’ll have to be willing to meet on his plane of reality and apologize and eat crow. I would snail mail him a letter saying you’re sorry and you miss him and asking how you can rebuild things. I would also share with one or two family members who keep in touch with both you and your brother that you would like to repair things and ask if they think they have an opening to raise it with brother. Obviously don’t air all your dirty laundry and the whole story-that would be drama. But surely you have one or two relatives who could be trusted with this? Not your parents, but an aunt, cousin, or other sibling? They’ll be able to give you a reading. You wouldn’t want to force the issue but I think it is ok to try this once. If the answer is no, at least ask the relative to keep you updated if anything seems to shift so you could reach out again if sibling seems open to it in the future.[/quote]
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