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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I've read through a lot not all. Here are my thoughts: 1. don't accept that kind of help from a sibling or family member. My mother would get "help" from her sibling and it always made things worse. 2. It sounds like you yelled at your brother (?) because of a situation that you put yourself in-- you needed reliable advice and counsel and (see item 1) 3. Your brother is holding a ridiculous grudge. That's not on you unless there are other things you haven't revealed. Move on, go to your Easter event (don't give up your entire family over this estrangement), ignore the elephant in the room. You can't change this situation, and frankly, it's not on you. 4. Maybe talk with a therapist because of item 3. You can't change this, it's not on you to try, and you need to come to terms with your feelings. [/quote]
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