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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are serious about getting better, you have to commit to staying away from women for a while (like at least 2yrs) while you do some major work with a therapist. Then you have to work through your obvious addiction to women and using them to fulfill some hole you have inside you.  Fill up that hole with something else by working on improving yourself as a human being. You cannot even begin to know how love someone else until you become whole on your own and respect yourself.[/quote]

That's exactly what my therapist told me. What is it that I truly believe I can't live without my ex-wife? While, while she was with me, I neglected her?[/quote]

I think you're coming on here for more attention from women - whether it is negative or whether it is sympathy, I don't think you care at this point.  You use women to fill your bottomless hole for need for attention.  In the beginnings of a relationship, there is more intensity, more time spent together, more attention, also in the early stages you are able to manipulate them more to give you this kind of attention.  You never loved your ex-wife.  At all.  You used her and then she became useless to you.[/quote]

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