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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Option A is unethical. Sorry. Reopen the conversation. Think of it as having two phases. In the first phase, you focus on LISTENING. really hear your husband out. See if there are compromises that are available. What exactly are his concerns? What’s his “worst case scenario?” What is he afraid of. Listen, listen, listen, and seriously consider what he’s saying. Allot for this... two weeks? IF at the end of the two weeks, you still haven’t come to agreement or any compromise, and dispute going in with an open mind, you still feel that you need this evaluation, then you try and convince him to do this. If a week or two of that doesn’t work, you can say “I know you disagree, but I feel I need to do this for our child. I’m taking him next week.” Btw, I agree with you. But your husband is your child’s parent, not me. [/quote] I think this is a fair approach. Thanks for the advice. -OP[/quote]
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