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[quote=Anonymous]OP— since you do the whole “when I was a kid” thing, if I was your shrink, I would tell you that you are so hyper focused on this because you see her as a reflection on you and are afraid that people think less of you because of her weight or appearance. Cut it out. It’s not about you or your childhood. And see an actual shrink.

And beyond the obvious focus on health and not appearance advice, start working on “I love” statements that have nothing to do with appearance.  You know, “I love listening to you practice your instrument. It’s nice to hear such beautiful music while I cook dinner”.  “I love watching your tennis match.  You were so determined and fought for every stroke.”  “I love that you went above and beyond to help your little sister without being asked.  You are growing into such a thoughtful young lady”.

Who knows— maybe it will help you find a reason to love your kid for herself, and not her hopefully someday shapely figure with striking eyes.  [/quote]

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