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[quote=Anonymous]Stop focusing on looks at all. Her looks are no longer part of her self esteem right now. My daughter was always thin & objectively pretty, she was down on her features (hyperfocus) and I showed her in utero images -- even then she was super cute with these sweet little features. This worked for like a day. Her issues maybe are triggering yours, or you're creating yours in her, in hopes that she can relive it out but with a better outcome (subconsciously). Looks change with age, looks can change suddenly from all sorts of factors. They are not a good basis for esteem. Enjoy your looks, be she needs to be solid within, and learn to find and connect with her inner self. The person she sees in the mirror isn't her, it's her interpretation of a reflection. The person other kids see is through their own molded experiences and beliefs, that isn't her either. Would she still be her if she lost her arm? Yes. Appearance is just a costume on who she really is. [/quote]
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