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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are pages and pages of youtube videos on how men can  become the dragon and so forth. The very definition of drama. Putin. Creating drama. It's not by feelings though. It's by destruction. Women naturally want to build people up being caretakers and emotional supporters. Men naturally want to protect and create. I wouldn't say either of these were void of drama. And if they are they are stagnating. Like the guy in that movie who has to have everything lined up in the cupboard but then rapes his wife and won't let her out of his sight.

There are dysfunctional people but naturally you are going to get women interested in helping you with something. It's their natural instinct. Just like if you present this same item to men they are going to dismiss or get up in arms about it. Very black and white which is why many men don't have other men to talk to about issues.

OP why are you talking to women about your issues? No men to talk to about them? [/quote][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]As I get to know women, I see a drastic and almost-immediate shift in their demeanors once I mention any hardships that I am suffering from. In the blink of any eye, they go from barely making eye contact to vividly engaging with me as I unload my baggage.[/b]

Then, I remember a panel of women collectively sharing how insecure they are about not eating certain foods on a 1st date, especially foods eaten by hand like ribs - because it makes them appear “unladylike.”

Is the stereotype of women like bad boys rooted in their desire to feel “needed,” and because it alleviates their need to appear like a Virgin Mary, knowing they’re dealing with someone who is also imperfect? [/quote]

Women are naturally nurturers, and a lot of women find themselves in situations (which they ultimately regret), of trying to fix a man. These are the types of women that you are attracting. You're coming off as humpty dumpty and these women want to put you back together again.

I don't think women choose bad boys because of their desire to feel needed, they choose them because of their desire to feel protected...by any means necessary. [/quote]
This hackneyed and regurgitated excuse is not going to work anymore. Women don't do it because they're nurturers; they do it because it makes them feel needed and grants them the privilege of not having to maintain a certain level of decorum. Toxicity loves company, so women have an easier time in regard to letting their guard down around a dysfunctional man. [/quote]

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