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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow.

Women don't seek out or like drama any more or less than men.
Men don't seek out or like drama any more or less than women.

They might express it differently, though.

I personally avoid drama. I don't have crazy or drama loving friends.[b] I've never dated a crazy or drama loving man. [/b]

If you have crazy, drama loving people all around you, you might stop to look at yourself and your "picker" (e.g. who do you pick to hang out with?). In no instance do you have to be friends with or hang around with folks who love drama. Look at your family and review your FOO. Then reassess if you want to be friends or lovers with the crazy makers.  Even family. I have a drama-loving cousin. I love her, I see her at family events, but I do not need to go there and be in her drama. So I don't.[/quote]

Oh they can masquerade, VERY, VERY well.  IT's the 'behind your back' stuff (and everyone else's) you don't see because they are masters at compartmentalization and lying picked up from childhood dysfunctional household.  The man may appear to be a perfectionist: good looking, highly ambitious, successful and very loving---landing a woman from a family he wishes he had---but when he is depressed or unstable--that's when they seek out that drama--affairs, secret addictions, etc. with other unstable drama-seekers.

THIS. This was my ex-DH and I was the woman from the family he never had. He had multiple affairs before I found out and divorced him. He's now with a much younger woman and has glommed on to her ideal family too.

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