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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^ the answer is the same, OP. Different sides, same coin. The coin is the socialization process of people in this culture. One feeds the other.

And boy, there is *plenty* of dysfunction with men. We can talk about women in this thread, but let's not forget that.

If a retail worker is shot by an ex-partner, what are the odds you'll read THAT story and guess it might be a man who was shot? It's essentially always a woman. The raging man is a stereotype for a reason.[/quote]

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[b]OP I think that you might be missing some red flags if you don’t see dysfunction in men[/b]. [/quote]Men are [b]not more or less[/b] dysfunctional than women…but men don’t [i]seek out[/i] dysfunction like many women do. [/quote]

They don’t?  
I have seen quite a few men on this board say that they are looking for a younger woman who grew up with an absent father and has “daddy issues.”  
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1. I haven’t.
2. They’re looking for pretty women who want to have sex.[/quote]

I know plenty of men who are very tepid and dull who are with dramatic women. I think they like the drama the wife brings while they remain more stoic. It seems to work for them. To each their own.[/quote]

No, we enjoy the sex.[/quote]

You are so pathetic.  This is the most important relationship of your life other than (maybe) the relationship you have with your parents.  This person has access to all of your finances and will bear and help raise your children, and you can’t think of any reason you might choose this person other than the sex?

That is so sad.  No wonder men don’t have any friends.  
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NP here - I've been married for a very long time, I have two grown boys, three brothers and eight male cousins and, IMO, men can ignore a lot of not so great things in a woman if the sex is mind blowing. Of course they are looking for other qualities but sexual compatibility and attraction are kind of non-negotiable. This is my 2 cents, as a woman surrounded by men. [/quote]

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