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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They do it the same way men with newborns date. Not that difficult.

I had men pursue me while I was pregnant, and I was ready to have sex again within a couple days of having a baby. Waited a couple weeks before I gave in. Helped a TON with the PPD. [/quote]

Sex or being pursued helped? [/quote]

Sex. I’m married so didn’t care about being pursued. But there were definitely men who were interested. Had I been single and gone 9 months without sex, yea, I’d be itching to get back to it. [/quote]

Sex with your husband with a newborn is different than a random dude.[/quote]

How so?

I don’t really see the difference between dating and having sex when you have a newborn vs having an older child. And no one would bat an eye if it were a man dating with a newborn. [/quote]

Because newborns require a lot of work and time. A LOT of work and time. It's hard with two parents in the home. So time that she is spending dating and finding guys on tinder is time she's away from her baby.

It's ok to be a feminist and still this this lady has screwed up priorities. How would you feel about a man doing this?[/quote]

Maybe dad shares custody of the baby.

Maybe mom has family and friends who are helping out.

Maybe mom hires a sitter a couple times a week.

Most dads aren’t all that involved during the newborn stage and no one bats an eye.

Very strange you think women with babies should be locked up in the house taking on 100% of the responsibility. This is why PPD is so high. I went out almost daily without my newborn so I didn’t develop PPD. [/quote]

Going out and going out on dates are very different things. Or do you think she's bringing her newborn with her to the bar? In a pandemic?
And you saying dads aren't involved kind of proves the point. She's doing it on her own. And dating. Her kid is getting the short of it and if you don't believe that you're FOS. [/quote]

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