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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some people flaunt how well they can do it but announce divorce within 5-10 years and tell how difficult it was.[/quote]

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This is so true it’s actually become a cliche. But the first thing that goes out the door in these situations is self care, including any hobby you might have previously enjoyed. Then time with friends. Then time spent working on the marriage.

Those three things are the grease that keep everything else running smoothly (kids, work, family, house stuff etc.).

Turns out, most people need some amount of downtime for self, friends, relationship.[/quote]

I am a sahm now. When I was working, I had no time for myself. I was exhausted all the time. I felt I wasn’t putting my all at work or at home. I had no time for friends or my husband. I felt my kids were missing out on play dates. All I did was work, rush home to get kids ready for dinner and bed. My one kid did one sport and it was so hard to get my kid to soccer. I know I could have outsourced this but I wanted to take my kid to soccer.

I have 3 kids now and they all play multiple sports and have a very active social life. I have a lot of friends. I also work out almost daily and am more fit now than when I had my first kid.[/quote]

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