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Reply to "Bought the in-laws house and now they won’t move out for an undetermined amount of time. "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Go live in their second home. Take the kids. Leave the husband. [/quote] And if the second home is too far away, find an apartment. Get into therapy with your husband so you can get on the same page about who you're living with, how much caregiving support the two of you are willing to do for his parents, etc. I wouldn't move into the in-laws house if they haven't moved out, because there's no way you'll have the freedom to move your own stuff in and if they haven't first moved their stuff out. I would also start looking for a job, because things sound rocky with your DH.[/quote] Where did OP say they don’t already work outside the home?[/quote] DP but OP says DH is “sole” breadwinner. Thus my concern he’s making her take caregiver role. [/quote]
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