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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't get many dates from OLD as a woman in my late twenties living in the Bay Area. The big factor I assume is that I'm morbidly obese, have a BMI of 47.5. This is down from 53.0 last year. I'm trying to lose weight slowly and have stopped trying to date right now and plan to restart in the summer of fall. I'm wondering for larger woman that have success dating (are sought out), what is your BMI? I think I have a good personality and have a good job, but in OLD that is not most important.I'm wondering at what point I'm attractive not necessarily to the majority, but some people. It may be hard since there aren't many obese people in the area.[/quote]

Work on your BMI like it's a job. Put the dating in the back ground. Your referring to yourself like you plan to be obese for the rest of your life when you don't have to.

You've accepted it which means you've given up. Don't do that OP. You sound very nice and deserve to be happier. You're young and don't want early health issues. [/quote]

This was my initial reaction as well.  As OP has recognized she is more than just overweight, she is is significantly overweight.  The good news is at her weight even modest changes should enable her to lose weight fairly rapidly.  I'm not saying that it will be easy to become thin/fit and that doesn't even need to be her goal.  Even if she drops down to being simply overweight she will be in the same range as most other Americans and will dramatically improve her dating options.  Being significantly overweight hits you not just on the appearance front but also the known associated health concerns much like being a smoker.[/quote]

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