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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nope. Better than then roommate rental situation my friends found their husband's in.

I actually see the paid off mortgage as a plus - you and your spouse should be able to put a much larger down payment down when you're ready.[/quote]

OP doesn’t want to get married. He’s married to his mom. [/quote]

This.  Mommy and Daddy take care of OP when he’s there and make no demands.  Complete turnoff.[/quote]

OP here.  Would it also be a “complete turnoff“ if I had a trust fund?  Or if my parents lived far away and gave me an annual gift that I happened to use to pay for a chef?  Because as I mentioned, I don’t enjoy the ceaseless, mundane tasks involved in cooking my own food, so even if I didn’t live near my parents, I would find some way to outsource that labor.  I also don’t like cleaning and have a housekeeper that cleans my condo.  I work hard at my job and choose to spend the rest of my time doing things that I enjoy.

I have a great relationship with my parents and, as mentioned, find nature therapeutic so I love spending time in their backyard when the weather is nice.  Not sure why so many people find this distasteful.  Based on other threads, DCUM finds coming from a wealthy family to be a plus in a partner (not that my parents are super wealthy).  But apparently, if aid comes in the form of assistance with life’s mundane tasks instead of in cash - and where I also get to spend time with my parents - that is a “complete turnoff.”[/quote]

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