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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is my situation.  Condo is paid off and in a nice area.  I also have about $600K in the bank so it’s not a financial issue.

The issue is I love the peace and greenery of single-family homes so I spend a lot of time at my parents’ house, which is five minutes from my condo.  A two-bedroom condo is not going to give me much more in that regard than a one-bedroom condo.  And buying a house in this area would entail so much expense and hassle that I’m not interested in that right now.

Just curious if you women would perceive this as a negative in the dating market, i.e. that’s too small a place for a 40-year-old or it may indicate I’m not serious about marriage.  (Truthfully, I’m not interested in getting married but I don’t *lead* with that so women don’t think I am only interested in sex.)

Anyway, one-bedroom apartment for a 40-year-old man – is that a problem?[/quote]

No. It is not a problem at all for a single guy to have a 1-bedroom apt or condo. 
No. It is not a problem if they spend a lot of time at their parents house, don't like to cook or don't want to maintain a house. 
No. It is not a problem if they are not keen to be married or have a kid.

There are many 40+ women, who are single, may or may not have kids, who are looking for LTR but do not want to get married. The problem is only if you are a jerk in other ways or are a completely uninteresting person. [/quote]

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