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[quote=Anonymous]^ NP. You are not really "surviving" an affair, because use of that term implies that it is over and you and your spouse have dealt with it. In this case, your "DH" continues to sleep with other women with your approval, even though you clearly prefer that he would not. You are doing nothing butenabling his abusive behavior by accepting or even encouraging his justifications. Many people suffer trauma in childhood and find healthy coping mechanisms. Your husband makes it repeatedly clear that he prioritizes his own selfish desires and needs above yours. You accept it, for whatever reason. You are both desperately in need of therapy to break this co-dependence and, in his case, to learn actual mature coping mechanisms.[/quote]
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