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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are y’all kidding? 24 hours are in a day and it literally takes 2 seconds to tell someone that you won’t be making game etc.  He’s lost some interest. Guy here. [/quote]

I'm not a guy but I agree with this guy.  I bet if more men responded they would agree with this guy too.

I think he was gung ho until you had sex.  Then either he simply got what he wanted, or his mind wasn't blown by the sex and now his interest has cooled off.  I would back way off and see what happens next.  The ball should now be in his court.  If he's a guy who will start becoming less communicative and less willing to keep plans you two had made already you need to find that out now.[/quote]

I'm a guy. They have been on 5 dates. They made vague plans to watch half of the Super Bowl together. From his perspective, he may have thought she wasn't really interested in the game and thus no need to follow up quickly, especially if he's suddenly slammed with work. It might be that he is taking this all less seriously than OP, but if they are otherwise having a great time together, why throw it away over this? Why not just have fun? If she wants to make it super serious, she should have that conversation with the guy. But OP should be prepared to be disappointed because this guy may want a more relaxed situation than OP wants.[/quote]

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