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[quote=Anonymous]ok, so better plans for him fell into place for the super bowl. Maybe he did have a stressful work thing and wanted just to veg with friends to watch the game. You've only known him for 5 dates. it is bothering you bc of the correlation of having given it up and him not following through the mentioned plan. You are thinking worst case scenario (he wasn't into it) but it's probably more so bc he's not ready to put you as a priority. Ok, NOTED. I wouldn't explode the whole thing, but this is his strike one. If you want to see where this goes, just say something generic like, great halftime show! And leave it in his court to contact you. If he keeps on putting you on the back burner or pulls any more of these stunts (where you feel you're not a priority) then, there is your answer. At that moment in time, if it's a pattern (give him 2 more strikes) say, I like you but I need someone who will put me as a priority this point in my life. and end it. If it's a rose, it will bloom as they say and you can't force it. [/quote]

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