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Reply to "Good provider, super attentive sexually, but not into the family -- what would you do?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is not a problem. Really. Do not blow up your marriage.[/quote] It is difficult to explain the emotional long-term damage people can sustain when they have a parent who ignores them. As a young child I always felt that it was my fault my father didn’t like us. He didn’t know when our birthdays were, he never attended any events that were important to us, he never purchased a gift for us, and preferred to vacation without us. Particularly for young girls it’s important to have a father. My sister married very young to a man who is incredibly abusive. I think this is at least in part because she was looking for a father figure because even though we had a father in many ways we didn’t . Children usually feel that this is their fault and it’s because that they have done something wrong.[/quote] These kids are both under the age of five and it could totally change; it is not representative of your entire childhood at all.[/quote]
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