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[quote=Anonymous]Don’t agree that primary caregiver means majority of mental work unless that’s what they have explicitly agreed upon. It’s a matter of definition. Primary caregiver in my eyes means person who does the most hands on childcare - dressing, tooth brushing, disciplining, feeding, bathing. He seems to be doing this given her long work hours. Mental work tasks should be fairly distributed, but shouldn’t all fall on him. Maybe he could take on the booking of sitters and medical appointments, and she can do passport applications and clothes buying. They should go through this item by item. He isn’t a stay at home dad, and he isn’t a single dad.[/quote]
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