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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think it’s a deal breaker. If you’re 40 and divorced I hope you know to stay outright to him, “I like it when the man in my life is concerned about me getting home safely, could you show you want to hear from me when I get back to make sure I’m safe?”[/quote]

OP: I would feel totally fine saying this. I guess my concern is if this doesn't come naturally, or he doesn't actually want to do it- what does that mean.[/quote]

It means he thinks you're a grown woman of 40+ who can call an Uber from his house and either wait there or in his lobby if you prefer.  You're making too much of this, and it makes you sound high maintenance.

--woman[/quote]

+1 as a woman I feel badly for guys they're damned if they do and damned if they don't.

Anyway, op I know you say it's not a deal breaker, but it should be. It's clear you two aren't compatible. He is likely looking for a true egalitarian relationship and you are not. Best to part ways now.[/quote]

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