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[quote=Anonymous]I'm afraid to give my advice but here goes. 1.If this was my child, I would not spank her. period. ever. That is just you losing control and hitting a young child. It might make an impact but really? Is this what you want her to remember about you? You yourself said that you didn't want to do it so don't. You will just feel like crap and so will she. 2. I would definitely give her some harsh consequences and have a very serious talk with her. Only you know what is really important to her and will hurt the most in terms of losing it. There have been some good ideas. When you talk to her, listen. Ask questions. and listen. Don't just talk at her. 3. I would talk to the guidance counselor and get some input from her/him. Maybe she will have some ideas on how to help it stop, maybe not but, at the very least, she could arrange a lunch bunch where your daughter can invite friends and there will be no stealing on those days for sure. Perhaps it could be an opportunity to discus such topics as a group without pointing any fingers. 4. If you aren't currently working or could get away for a little bit, you could go to her lunch. Most schools have a pretty "open door policy" for coming to lunch with your kid, especially if you are working the lunchroom and helping all the kids with what they need. 5. If things don't get better, then perhaps therapy. [/quote]
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