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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP will not answer how often this is happening, so I am reserving my opinion until we get this info...[/quote]

Op here. This happens every holiday and anytime his mother visits us. She lives out of state. She visits a few times per year. He also invited himself over frequently (once per week). I don’t care about this that much. It is dh’s only brother. He wants free food, hang out, whatever. Now he wants to bring these girls to our house too.

It is annoying because I may have to get ready. I don’t want to be wearing just sweats if we have guests. I can’t put out leftovers and most likely have to burn 2 dinners I had planned for the week and they always overstay and suck up our time.[/quote]

It sounds like it is not just random then.  And it sounds like by allowing it, you have caused him to think it's okay for him to do.

I think you need to put way way way more of the hosting work on your DH.  Why is it that you cannot wear sweats and put out leftovers, though?  Normal hosting rules do not apply to people who are not invited.[/quote]

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