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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]BIL is always trying to bring girls to our house for dinner. BIL never even calls his mom and is estranged from his dad. Parents divorced when he was young. BIL is my husband’s brother. We don’t host many people, especially during the pandemic. We live in a nice home and have 3 kids. If BIL was bringing a serious girlfriend, I would be happy to meet her and have my kids meet her. Over the years, he is always trying to bring these girls to our house. It is very annoying to me.

If BIL wanted to introduce a girl to his mom, fine. He barely talks to his mom. He doesn’t invite us to his place or to a dinner. He just tries to come to OUR house uninvited. Fine if BIL comes uninvited and we don’t have quite enough food but it is so annoying to put out food for a stranger. We don’t host often, very rarely in 2 years.[/quote]

OP is it possible these women don't actually know the B.I.L. (brother in law) or only just met him outside your house, or followed him there so they could meet coincidentally? And there he is (the B.I.L.) sitting there thinking "well who is this lady?" and wondering if possibly you or someone else invited her? Sometimes people arrive, presenting themself as friends, including new friends, but they really are an imposter or a "rando" as some say, there to do some investigating or exploring or even just to get a new meal? We have seen this happen before and am wondering if it might be the case here or if that's something you are considering? Just a thought.[/quote]

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