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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When we had this disagreement, I put the onus of birth control on DH. He was free to get condoms, or get a vasectomy, or pull out.  And he did pull out for over a year until I got pregnant. 😂 he knew the risk he was taking![/quote]

It's disturbing that you are posting laughing emojis about this.

I'm sure you're the type to come back and (with more smileys, of course) post about how much he loves that baby he didn't want. Surely he does. But while you put the onus of BC onto him, did you also simultaneously go get a job that pays more, to help fund that kid for the next 18-22 years at least? Or did you plan ahead for increasing life insurance, health insurance premiums, more money into a college fund....? What onus did you put on yourself to be ready for a child?

Oh, sorry, you probably find that too much like harsh reality. Pity he couldn't just go get a vasectomy and was dumb enough to think pulling out was fine. But you got what YOU wanted, so yay, you! [/quote]

You sound like you have an axe to grind. Did your husband refuse to have a third kid or something? Not pp, but if her DH cared THAT much about not having a kid, bc should fall on him. Why should she be solely responsible for that?[/quote]

+1. Why should the responsibility of BC fall on the woman, rather than on the partner who does not want more children. [/quote]

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