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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP here.

Perhaps to some readers my post came across in a way I didn't want it to. I do not expect my extended family to take care of me and/or my husband when we're old. They wouldn't be able to anyway because of distance - they live a 6-7 hours drive away.

My husband and I are financially secure enough to pay for aides, cleaners and other helpers if/when we need them. We already hire a cleaner who comes in twice a week.

I agree with those of you who suggest I join activities, be a volunteer, etc. These are all excellent suggestions.
The reason I would like to form a closer bond with my extended family is because life can sometimes feel lonely without, even if I had a lot of friends.
I struggled when my parents died at a young age. I am an only and their deaths hit me hard. My aunts and uncles are still alive and I have cousins who remember my parents. I can reminisce with them but not with non family members.
It's a feeling of belonging that I miss.
Other than that, your suggestions are all helpful, thank you.
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