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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds to me like you BOTH have issues and that past resentments are coloring how you interpret things now. Based on what you have shared, I guarantee that your DH is as adamant that he has legitimate complaints as you are that you do.  I also am a little confused that you describe yourself as the breadwinner (implying only one), when it sounds like he contributes but makes less than you.  Your post makes it clear that you don’t view freelancing as a real job, even though that is how many people earn a living.  I’m wondering if he has picked up on that attitude, fostering more resentment.  There’s no question that his behavior as you describe the past couple of days sounds passive-aggressive and could be better.  He probably thinks there are things you could do better, too - you didn’t take blame for anything in any of your posts, and I wonder if that’s an issue in your marriage.  The fact that you have recently shopped for houses, planned vacations, etc.  suggests to me that there is definitely something here to save and that good counseling would be a huge benefit to both of you and your marriage.  I’m a DW, btw, who has worked yo resolve some of these issues in my own 25 year marriage.[/quote]

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