Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Tweens and Teens
Reply to "Culture and public vs private school "
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The code comes from having been raised in a house and community where people are the types who can get into and afford those private high schools. Your kid is already "in" the club where they teach the code because you and your spouse are their parents. These are the kids for whom going to Harvard instead of Michigan doesn't change their life trajectory, like you read about in the studies on how college impacts future life chances. For everyone who doesn't understand the concept of the code, go watch Six Degrees of Separation with Will Smith. [/quote] This. My middle class hard working parents would have been better off joining our local country club and sending me to the honors program at the local public school (rather than private) in order to introduce me into wealthier society in our area. Many of the wealthier students I did know in private school ended up making a mess of their lives with drug addictions and / or sexual assault convictions later in life (when they were finally charged.) It did teach me that there is definitely an unspoken code and my family did not have enough money to participate or for me to be taught the code. Attending private school also taught me how many wealthy people are hypocrites. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics