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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Like food and water, the most important is the one you don't have right now. [/quote]
boom.[/quote]

Good point. My marriage is and has been sex-starved for so long, I both dream of and am looking into the logistics of divorce and starting over. Yet, we are great friends and a great team and I am sure we would co-parent well if we split. The opposite of love is indifference, not hate.

It's hard to imagine if we had passion but divergent interests how that would be worse than this sexless prison. But then again, like the PP said, you notice most that which you are missing.[/quote]

Define sex starved.  We have sex about once a week and I can imagine my DH calling it a sexless prison when the reality is, we have little kids and by the end of a day of working and parenting, sometimes I just collapse when I finally get to bed.... [/quote]

In the last 3 years, we have had sex about 8x a year. Before that, in a good month it was 2x a month. We are both attractive and in our early 40s.

Ironically, when the kids were little, we were more like what you described, 3x a month and it only got worse over time.[/quote]

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