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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Like food and water, the most important is the one you don't have right now. [/quote]
boom.[/quote]

Good point. My marriage is and has been sex-starved for so long, I both dream of and am looking into the logistics of divorce and starting over. Yet, we are great friends and a great team and I am sure we would co-parent well if we split. The opposite of love is indifference, not hate.

It's hard to imagine if we had passion but divergent interests how that would be worse than this sexless prison. But then again, like the PP said, you notice most that which you are missing.[/quote]

Define sex starved.  We have sex about once a week and I can imagine my DH calling it a sexless prison when the reality is, we have little kids and by the end of a day of working and parenting, sometimes I just collapse when I finally get to bed.... [/quote]

Same. We don't have sex as much as I'd like (or my DH would like) but I am sooooo tired out by our kids. Just exhausted. I think he's about as exhausted as I am, but he does seem to be in the mood more often than I am. But the idea of him calling himself sex starved is ridiculous to me, because that indicates he's getting rejected. Which he's not. I'm just literally too tired to do ANYTHING other than pass out most nights. It's not like I'm dismissing him to watch tv or read or look at my phone. I'm just asleep before he can finish brushing his teeth.[/quote]

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