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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m OP.  Have a friend of a friend I’m increasingly running in circles with- never paid much attention to him before, but as we see each other more, I’ve noticed how much we have in common and genuinely kind he is- so I’m just noticing him more.  He’s not ugly, just not my type, but wondering if maybe I have been too superficial in the past.  [/quote]

I was in a similar situation. Had a good male friend who I was SO compatible with, tons in common, really kind and caring guy, exactly what I wanted. Except, I was not attracted to him AT ALL.

Tried to make a relationship work but the chemistry and attraction just wasn't there. Sex is very important to me, and I couldn't stand being touched by him. It wasn't fair to lead him on, and honestly, if we had remained together I probably would have ended up cheating. I felt terrible because he was head over heels for me.

Good news is I found someone I'm just as compatible with AND wildly attracted to. So happy I didn't settle.

It's not superficial to want to be attracted to the person you'll be having sex with. If looks were the only thing you cared about, that would be shallow. As long as you have other criteria, you're good.[/quote]

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