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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Obviously [b]abuse, drugs, criminal history[/b] are clear signs but what other issues do you consider a red flag in an adult child’s SO, worthy enough to voice your concern? [/quote]

Anti-social tendencies
Mental illness and disorders (Bipolar, NPD, DPD)
Parents Divorced
Financial habits - Overspending, in debt, student debt, no savings , does not contribute the maximum to meet employer match
Lack of adulting skills
Low EQ, low self-esteem, unpleasant personality
Poor physical health or medical history
Unattractive
Does not treat my adult child well.
Baggage and previous relationships 
Education Level
No future plans

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I'm trying to picture how you get all this information.  Handing the SO a survey when you first meet them?  An interrogation like in the movie Meet The Parents?  [/quote]

Same. I'd love to witness the conversation where pp tells her child their So isn't attractive enough. So many of these posters are delusional. Funny thing is they all probably complain about nightmare inlaws, yet they are shaping up to be exactly that.[/quote]

Attractive enough? Haha no parent would risk saying that as beauty is only skin deep and in the eye of the beholder.[/quote]

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