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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's really not their concern that your husband lost his job.  Are you looking for some type of support from them?  Speak up about the visits, just say it's been a tough year and it's hard to entertain when you guys are so stressed.  Ask  them to babysit.[/quote]mm
I guess I would prefer that either they verbally acknowledged it in some way - or that I don’t have to really entertain them for the time being. I can’t quite explain why but having to host them and not talk about the situation and pretend like everything is fine gives me crippling anxiety. I know that may be my issue which is why I’m curious if others have experienced similar [/quote]
Gurllllllll, your issue is with your man not his momma and daddy. 
If you are stressed over this then talk to your husband, a couple’s l therapist YOUR mom or a good friend. Otherwise, you essentially sound like you want to tell on him. Seriously, What do you expect them to do, make him be more responsible? He is grown, he’s going to do what he is going to do. 
It’s one thing to say you s are having a stressful time but what are your exact expectations?
And And why do you call it pretending when you have people over and not subjecting them to the intimate details of your marital problems?[/quote]

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