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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. Yes cutting her off is insane. Families aren’t perfect and I’m way past trying to change her into who I’d prefer she is.

I was more trying to see how long to wait to reach out/whether you rehash etc. We normally talk daily and I’m normally a peace maker, so this is really hard. 
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OMG this is so hard for you, you poor thing.  Yes you need to reach out really fast.  I mean your husband only stood up for you and now you have thrown him under the bus by simply wanting to know how long until you go running to mom  and make things right.

Really are you ever going to stand up for the husband that stood up for you.  I would say when he says he never wants to see them again, he means it and this is of course nothing to you, because it's like so hard for you.  No one else matters, only that you can fulfil your damaged peace maker role.

People divorce over this.  Do you get it, your mother couldn't control herself and yelled at your husband for doing nothing but trying to defend you.  I would say his lesson next time would be to grab some popcorn and watch the circus from afar and let your family walk all over you and say whatever they were saying that he needed to defend you against.  Next time you should deal with it solely on your own.

Perhaps rather than worrying when you can just ignore it all and run to call mom, perhaps you can look at your husband who just got yelled at by your dysfunctional family.  Perhaps you could I don't know, show him the same support he showed you.

Your mother owes your husband an apology.  I doubt she has the class or dignity to offer one.[/quote]

This is terrible advice. What in the world?[/quote]

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